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Helen Lewis's avatar

I’ve found lots of de Boer’s writing funny and sharp (usually when he’s attacking people I also find annoying) and I enjoy his kamikaze attitude to his arguing endlessly with his own commenters about gender while telling them how bored he is of the whole subject.

But I did have a similar experience to you. He emailed me after I wrote an Atlantic profile of a controversial educator to tell me that because of my cozy corporate perch, I couldn’t ever address the REAL issues in education (aka the ones in his book).

I think we should just consider the possibility that a sense of being excluded from the Cool Kids Table is the engine that underpins his writing, and that has positive and negative effects.

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Baron Aardvark's avatar

The baseball analogy is dead on. The last time Freddie wrote something relevant to the current cultural climate was in 2022.

He’s also a deeply unpleasant person who’s constitutionally incapable of receiving criticism of any kind with good grace. His go-to response to disagreement—his only response—(which I predict will be his response to this piece)—is “but you didn’t understand my argument!!” To which I always want to reply: if not a single one of your readers understands what you're saying, do you think they're the problem, or do you think you are?

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